Wouldn’t it be awesome to have the step-by-step manual for how to get a great guy to ask you out?
In this post, we’ll look at 3 steps you need to take to make it happen.
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Start the conversation
Don’t always leave it to the guy to start the conversation
If you’re stuck in a long line at the grocery store, talk about what’s around you. “Can you believe how the price has gone up for a good steak?” “ Before you buy that detergent, did you know that another good brand has a two for one sale?”
As simple as that sounds, it says, “Hey, I’m willing to talk to you” in a nice, non-threatening way.
Admire his car at the gas station or his mountain bike at the park, but don’t get personal about clothes or anything that screams “pickup.”
By keeping the conversation neutral, you get the chance to find out if you’re interested in taking it further. Even if a guy opens the door for you, instead of just mumbling “thanks,” look him in the eyes and say, “Thank you, I appreciate it when a guy opens doors for me.”
That’s flattering, which immediately gets his attention and gives him a chance to join the conversation if he’s interested – or say, “You’re welcome” and move on if he’s not interested.
Watch your body language
Look at how you carry yourself
Do you appear approachable and interesting or desperate?
Make sure your arms aren’t folded in front of your chest or that you aren’t rolling your eyes and scowling at everyone and everything around you.
Be pleasant and smile and even if he’s not your type, that doesn’t mean you can’t be friendly to someone who took the time to try to get to know you.
Confidence is sexy.
Even if you are confident at work it may be hard to be confident in relationships.
This is often due to past break-ups. But you’d be surprised how many people had to learn to be more confident in relationships.
If you need help it’s ok to get a coach or reach out for tips.